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Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear.

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Allen L Roland, Ph.D.

The Seven Stages of Relationship

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Relationship is a means to an end versus an end in itself ~ the true purpose of relationship is the full flowering of each partner regardless of the risk to the relationship: Allen L Roland

 

Most people are afraid of love because they are afraid of their deepest joy and inner freedom.

In relationship, we must reach a place where being honest and being true to yourself is more important than the survival of the relationship ! Let me illustrate this using Stendhal's and Roland's seven stages of a love relationship :

The Eight Stages of Ego Death

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Ego death is only a death to the extent that the heart becomes our master and the mind, as well as the ego, becomes the servant on the journey to fully embrace yourself

Allen L Roland

 

The ego is a projection of what we feel we have to be versus who we really are and, like a protective cocoon, it is meant to be shed once we fully open our heart and discover not only our true self but our part in an evolving loving plan.

As such, the heart transcends the ego and the ego is no longer needed ~ for inner validation has replaced the need for outer validation.

Here are the Eight Stages of Ego Death ~ which countries and civilizations can also experience by losing touch with their founding principles and moving to the dark side of political manipulation, control and unchecked or unregulated financial greed as America has recently done.

 

1. DENIAL

There is nothing wrong with me ~ everything is perfect ~ I'm in full control !

Love and Synchronicity / The Force and the Vehicle

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Love is the uniting force of the universe and synchronicity is the vehicle by which we are each guided to our individual part in a loving plan ~ responding to this inner call is the ultimate YES to yourself and affirmation of your life: Allen L Roland

 

It was Carl Jung who wrote ;

 

" We are in the deepest sense , the victims and the instruments of cosmogonic love. I do not use love in its connotations of desiring, preferring, favoring, wishing and similar feelings, but as something superior to the individual ~ a unified and undivided whole."

 

Jung's theories of the collective unconscious fit within and support my model of a Unified field of Love as a universal psychic energy field that unites and connects all beings.

Heart is the Master, Mind the Servant

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HEART IS THE MASTER / MIND THE SERVANT

The mind is always looking for answers that the soul already knows thus synchronistic events are the vague awareness that our lives are divinely guided from the heart : Allen L Roland , Ph.D

There is absolutely no doubt in my mind that my life is divinely guided by my heart and when I fully surrender to love I enter a Unified Field of soul consciousness where there are no accidents.

Understanding the Force

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The dark side or force of ego consciousness can never fully prevail because nothing can resist the innate universal urge to unite or force of soul consciousness: Allen L Roland

 

Understanding the force means understanding the subliminal message of George Lucas's Star Wars epic. All the clues are there to be heard in the final episode ~ Revenge of the Sith .

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